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> Get Articles > Job and Career > Don't overdrive your headlights Don't overdrive your headlights Download as PDFCathy Goodwin cathymovinglady.com make your move to career freedom http://www.movinglady.com As a die-hard New Yorker, I learned to drive after I moved west as an elderly twenty-one-year-old. Night driving was a special challenge and the instructor reminded me, "Don't drive past your headlights." Over the years, I came to understand what he meant. I learned to look for reflectors, signs and lights, and to drive slowly on country roads that lacked these amenities. I also that I could drive much faster when I had driven a road many times. I think about night driving when people ask, "How fast should I go in a life transition?" Counselors, consultants and coaches often say things like, "You need confidence! Move forward!" Your confidence, like your car's headlights, will allow you to move forward. You know where you are going and you can handle what's ahead. You don't get confidence when someone says, "You're wonderful!" You gain confidence the way you learn to drive country roads. Go slow until you learn the way. If you feel nervous, you can develop your skills, find another route, or even delay your trip so you can drive in daylight. You might feel better if you have a map, so you won't be surprised or wonder if you're lost when you see signs pointing to places you've never heard of. Sometimes you have to tell yourself, "Look, I've done this before. I've never had an accident. The roads are dry and the sky is clear. Let's move!" You have to respect your own inner wisdom -- and sometimes your realistic concerns can be misinterpreted as lack of confidence. You must go at your own pace. However, you know you need to get to your destination, somehow. You can't stay here forever. Once you're on the road, often your confidence grows as you move. And next time you'll know the way. How useful did you find this article? This article can be downloaded freely from http://www.get-articles.com and used on your website or in your ezine so long as the author is credited and their resource box left intact. You should not change any links in the article, and where the article is used on a website it's links should be clickable. Please see our terms and conditions page for more information: http://www.get-articles.com/authors-publishers-terms.php |
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