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When It Doesn't Quite Work Out...Then What?
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Lee Wise
lfwiseaol.com
Retire Quickly
http://www.retirequickly.com/89863
ŠLee Wise, 2002
LIVING WITH THE TENSION
Tension? Did you say tension? As a
Christian in the network marketing world
I experience tension?
Yes.
Things like ...
*Caring for your downline and someone
doesn't "make it" -- that's been a
rough one for me. You identify with
their goals, their dreams and the
reasons they have for succeeding:
and it doesn't happen.
*Trying to find just the right
"something" that will help people
develop and grow their businesses
at a faster rate -- and not finding
that "something." That, for me,
is a tension I have to work through.
*Being physically tired and not able to
invest the time and energy I might want
to invest in my own business. That can
be frustrating.
A SIMPLE POINT
My point in sharing these brief comments is
that the "tension points" I face as a
Christian leader have their place in *His*
leadership development plan for my life!
HOW SO?
I view myself as Christian leader in the
making. And as such, I am finding that the
tensions I face in the normal process of
building my business constantly bring me
back to the basics of living a genuine
Christian life.
AND THE BASICS ARE ...
Giving myself "heart checks." A check like,
"Lee, do you really care about this person
as an individual or simply as a way to build
your downline and make money?"
Genuine care is a "basic." It is not an
option for me as a Christian. I need to
take regular "caring heart checks" to see
how I am doing -- especially in times of
frustration.
Praying is another "basic." I pray for
wisdom how to help. I pray and I look for
answers.
"Releasing." The more years I am on this
earth the more I realize the necessity of
simply releasing to God those things I do
not understand. I don't know how many times
I have told students in my classes and people
I share with: "Don't let the 'Whys?' of
life kill you!"
Releasing is the other side of trust. I
simply don't know why God didn't allow
this person to succeed! I work. I pray.
And if necessary I release. I allow God
to be God in my life *and* in the person's
life who didn't see things happen the
way *both* of us wanted them to happen!
One final thought. When things don't
quite work out I am often reminded (shall
I say prompted?) not to make money my God.
I say a constant prayer as I seek to build
my business. It is simple, but needed.
It goes like this: "God, guard my heart."
IN REVIEW
I have found that the "not-so-perfect" times
reinforce my need to ...
Genuinely care for people.
Pray.
Trust and release.
Live for God and not money.
STILL LEARNING
I imagine I will be "learning" these aspects
of living the Christian life time and time
again as I build my business.
Why?
Because my business is a part of my life and
that's what my Savior works with: my life!!
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Lee is a Seminary administrator, has a part-time
home business, and writes his own motivational
mailing. You may contact him at lfwiseaol.com
or by visiting <a href="http://www.retirequickly.com/89863">http://www.retirequickly.com/89863</a>
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